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There is a great difference between FLIRT and SEDUCE

   Yesterday i read #nomention twit like this :
"If a boy is a flirt, it's still normal. But it's so cheap if a girl is a flirt. Shame oh shame."

   WTH! i do believe if #nomention and some random teenagers know nothing about flirting things. And i bet everyone in this world, especially you, yes you who read this blog ever flirt someone, and it doesn't matter if you guy or girl. So does it make you cheap? definitely NOT. You should know if even "cheap" has it's own mean.

SLUT : One who engages in sexual activity with a large number of personas or someone who's sexually promiscuous. NOT a girl who wears shorts or has a lot of guy friends.

BITCH : People with an unpleasant attitude or someone who's thoroughly disliked. NOT a person who makes a point and stand for what she believes in.

   Bahkan yang lagi rame di indonesia sekarang adalah ngeflirt pake kalimat gini :
"bapak kamu tukang kembang ya?"
"kok tau?"
"iya, soalnya kamu udah bikin hati aku berbunga-bunga"

   Get my point not? that's a flirt yang bahkan ga peduli siapa yang ngucapin duluan dan bahkan ga ada yang ngejudge kalo yang ngeflirt duluan itu "murahan". Kalaupun ada yang ngejudge pasti bakal dibilang "awwh, kamu so sweet banget sih", ya kan?

S E D U C E
 
   Seduction is persuading (play upon another's emotions and feelings) and convincing someone to have sex or engage in sexual acts with you.

F L I R T
FLIRT : A person who is indicating an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person or playful romantic and can involve verbal communication as well as body language. NOT a person who simply say hi or gives someone a small compliment or hangs out with her guy friends.

   People flirt for a variety of reasons. Flirting can indicate an interest in a deeper personal relationship with another person. Some people flirt simply for amusement, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as cheating if either person is already in a committed relationship with someone else.

   Contoh lain dari flirting itu misalnya :
eye contact, ngedip-ngedipin mata, giggling, teasing, flying kiss, casual touch (pegangan tangan, ngerangkul), smiling suggestively, sending notes, poems, or small gifts, singing a love song, bahkan emot yang dipake buat chatting.

   Satu hal yang peling sering terjadi itu kalau ada dua orang yang sama-sama saling suka tapi sama-sama ngarep di deketin duluan. Ngedeketin duluan itu emang normally tugas cowo, tapi liat deh sekarang ini populasi cewe semakin banyak dibandingin cowo yang artinya cewe itu lebih punya experience lebih dalam hal pacaran, flirting, dan nunjukin atau ngungkapin rasa suka dibanding cowo itu sendiri. Kalau ada cowo ganteng tapi ga pernah pacaran sebelumnya, malu-malu pula, apa iya kamunya diem dan nunggu buat di deketin terus?

Sometimes it's okay when a girl make the first move. 
Flirt with him enough to show your  interest, 
but tease him enough to make him chase you!!

   We all have own lives, but in this case being judge like this can be somewhat annoying because accusing someone a flirt won’t make you no good and will only make matters worst. What you can only do is change for the better. If you grew up with guys and trust only a few girls/trust guys more than you trust girls, then learn to adjust.


3 Love Letters:

  1. Like always, mbak nindy kalo ngomong dalem.
    Suka banget sama quotenya yang "sometimes it's okkay when a girl make the first move. Flirt with him enough to show your interest, but tease him enough to make him chase you"
    perlu dicatet ini :)

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  2. ahahaha.... gifnya oke juga

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  3. klo ada ebook bagi bagi yah :D

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