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CYBERBULLYING

Aaaagh, im fuckin pissed of with someone who bullying me on cyber. Keep asking me fuckin question, pretend if this fuckin man know me, telling me he got my private pictures  and wants to upload it at porn site LOL XD. I know i don't have it, but it's so annoying!!!

Well as you see im type of people who's spend a lot of time on instant messenger chatting and others social networking, have online friends whom i’ve never met in person, with whom i play games and exchange messages. I have live on the internet. And now what!!! bullying has followed ME.

 

FACTS!!

I've found facts if this evil man is bullying me and you know what, he sooo stupid. Let me show you his stupidness :
Fact #1 : This man named Anonymous. He is guy. I know because he asking me "i have bf or not".
Fact #2 : He know my college and he said he knows me from my bf, in fact he just looking this info from my blog and my facebook.
Fact #3 : Sadly he didn't know if blogger now can track stats. With one click i'll who's come to my blog, traffic source, countries, browsers, and even operating system. And yeah, he ever visit my blog and you know what next.
Fact #4 : He said he want to go out with me, watch the movie or go to the park. Hello,  emang di Indonesia ada park yang oke buat jalan-jalan? Lo pikir water park.
Fact #5 : From fact #4 i can tell if he's not Indonesian.

Well if you've been a victim of cyberbullying, know someone who has been cyberbullied, or have even cyberbullied yourself, there are steps you and your friends can take to stop cyberbullying and stay cyber-safe.

 

How are peeps CYBERBULLIED?

Being a victim of cyberbullying can be a common and painful experience. Some youth who cyberbully :
  • Pretend they are other people online to trick others
  • Spread lies and rumors about victims
  • Trick people into revealing personal information
  • Send or forward mean text messages
  • Post pictures of victims without their consent
When peeps were asked why they think others cyberbully, mostly said that cyberbullies think it’s funny. Other peeps believe that youth who cyberbully :
  • Don’t think it’s a big deal
  • Don’t think about the consequences
  • Are encouraged by friends
  • Think everybody cyberbullies
  • Think they won’t get caught

 

How Do Victims React?

Contrary to what cyberbullies may believe, cyberbullying is a big deal, and can cause a variety of reactions in peeps. Some have reacted in positive ways to try to prevent cyberbullying by :
  • Blocking communication with the cyberbully
  • Deleting messages without reading them
  • Talking to a friend about the bullying
  • Reporting the problem to an internet service provider or website moderator
Many youth experience a variety of emotions when they are cyberbullied. Youth who are cyberbullied report feeling angry, hurt, embarrassed, or scared. These emotions can cause victims to react in ways such as
  • Seeking revenge on the bully
  • Avoiding friends and activities
  • Cyberbullying back
Some peeps feel threatened because they may not know who is cyberbullying them. Although cyberbullies may think they are anonymous, they can be found. If you are cyberbullied or harassed and need help, save all communication with the cyberbully and talk to friends you trust or even law enforcement officer.

 

Stay Cyber-safe

Remember that the internet is accessed by millions of people all over the world, not just your friends and family. While many Internet users are friendly, some may want to hurt you. Below are some ways to stay cyber-safe:
  • Never post or share your personal information online (this includes your full name, address, telephone number, school name, parents’ names, credit card number, or Social Security number) or your friends’ personal information.
  • Never share your Internet passwords with anyone, except your parents.
  • Never meet anyone face-to-face whom you only know online.
  • Talk to your parents about what you do online.
When you’re online, there are some important safety precautions you should always keep in mind:
  • Be smart about the content you share. Never share personal information like phone numbers, email addresses or home addresses on your page. If you make your account Protected, you can control who sees what you post.
  • Block and report users who break our Terms of Service, and tell an adult if you’re being targeted. Don’t respond to questions that are inappropriate or abusive.
  • Manage your Settings. Review and update your settings for anonymity and privacy.

 

If Someone Bullying on you

You are the best person to decide if you’re being harassed.
  • If you receive a question or  sent you  annoying message  and it's makes you uncomfortable, do not respond to the question.
  • Change your profile setting, private is better.
  • If you receive repeated message that violate these guidelines or find a content violation just report it.
  • Don't forget to tell someone you trust and block the user who sent you fuckin message so they can’t contact you again.

It’s important to remember that cyberbullies usually write to you to get a reaction. If they don’t get one, they usually give up. Rather than responding to a bully,  block them, and report them to resolve the issue safely. Please note that you should also contact the authorities if you ever feel threatened by something you see on the site.

9 Love Letters:

  1. Wow..what a complete story and information...
    tapi sekarang udah aman terkendali kan chan??

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  2. udah ko, udah ga ada message dari orang itu lagi.
    actually aku pengen nge-report-in dia, tapi di formspring ribet banget. masa iya cuma report abuse doang mesti register dulu.

    FYI dia ngemessage-in aku lewat formspring

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  3. Astaga kamu di bully mbak?

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  4. eh iya, nin kalo ga salah kmaren kamu berantem di chat box ya? gara-gara apaan sih? aku buru-buru banget soalnya ga baca terlalu jelas.

    maaf ya kalo kesannya aku pengen tau urusan orang

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  5. cyberwars, hahahaha... *ga ko becanda*

    kmaren orang iseng aja, dia ngaku-ngaku namanya marta dan gara-gara ini aku beneran berantem sama orang yang namanya marta.

    marta dan the real marta yang di chat box kemaren itu sama sama fake. dia ngatain sesuatu tentang boobs aku, dibilang fake lah, ditambahin sesuatu lah, dan dia minta aku nunjukin boobs aku. cih sakit banget ga sih ni orang

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  6. iyuuu, dia lesbi? sriusan sakit dah. apa jangan-jangan dia cowo yang ngaku-ngaku cewe. taulah kan dia pengen liat "itu", sapa tau aja lagi pengen makanya bertindak yang aneh-aneh

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  7. Hmmm, entahlah yang jelas orangnya udah ga pernah ngegangguin lagi.

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