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How to STOP hoping for waiting his reply

It has been 15 minutes since you sent a text asking for his day.

30 minutes passes. You have been checking your cell phone like a maniac. Why hasn’t he replied?!


45 minutes passes. Now you get all these weird thoughts that, maybe he wasn’t that into you? but you vibed pretty well. What went wrong? You start analyzing the evening for mistakes or clues. Nothing. Just a wait a minute! There was this awkward silence, and there is no point in continuing the story. You’re a smart girl, you get the point.



It's about a change in mind...

The simplest way to say it is this: Stop caring so much! I know it can be hard. Really hard. But if you don’t want to walk around your whole life and just wait, it is absolutely crucial to learn it.

This is the attitude you need to take on when you send a text message:
  • I don’t really care if he replies to this message. It’s just a text, I’m just a girl and he’s just a boy.
  • It would be nice if he did reply, though, because i think he’s kind of cute and i would like to get to know him better.
  • I have better things to do than sitting around and waiting. I have a life. There will be others.
  • Now i’ll just live on and accept whatever the outcome may be.
So maybe he will reply. Maybe he never received the text. There are 1000 possibilities. But in the end, it’s all about the amount of importance you lay on his reply. If it honestly doesn’t mean much to you, what’s the big deal?


Don't check your phone all the time...

Girls, this is huge! Try to really become “outcome independent” of your phone.
No, you don’t need to take it with you everywhere you go.

No, you didn’t just hear your phone. It was probably something else.
No, you don’t need to check it every 2 minutes. And just in case you actually got a text, what difference does it make if you don’t read it right away?
Just chill. That’s the basic lesson for today.


When to write again...

If after a day or two he still hasn’t replied, it may be time to send another text, just to give it another shot. Try to not sound too needy. What you want to achieve is just some kind of life signal from his side.


The next text...

If you want to, and he haven’t replied to your last text, you can send the next one after a week or something. 

A sample could be this: 
“Are you alive?”
 

Or the more extreme : 
if you still love me, can you reply my text or something?

If he doesn’t text you back after that message, just try to forget him.


7 Love Letters:

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